I have said this before but for the sake of making my point in this post I guess I need to say it again; I used to own my own business and make lots of money, like six figures, now I don't. I was the big bread winner in the family and now I am not. Since then, I admit I have struggled to know my value. I mean I know it, but only in my mind when I recite to myself like I am memorizing the answers to a test or something. Then just like when taking a test, as soon as the need for the info is



When I first went bankrupt and lost my business in 2008 I went through a time of withdrawal. I was used to be busy, busy, busy and very focused on growing my business as well having lots of money that I generally mishandled so going from that to what I perceived as having nothing going on for myself and being broke was quite difficult. What I did not know at the time was that God had a plan for my daughter and I was a key component of that plan. I know, duh.